To The Mom Who Reached Out: Thank You.
I am a chronic over-thinker. I analyze everything- from the things I say, to the way I look, to the things other people say, and what it all means. This can make socializing a little difficult (to say the least). Becoming a mom has only added to this sort of social anxiety. Add to that several moves to different states, it’s been hard to make good mom friends. Sometimes I’m good at putting myself out there from the beginning but other times it’s been harder to come out of my shell. This is why I’m writing this, a thank you to the moms who have taken me under their wing.
Whether they knew they were doing an act of service by inviting me to something, I don’t know. All I know is I am so, so, SO thankful to them. I’ve been invited to play dates, to exercise with other moms, to church activities, and to grab a soda with another mom. Each invitation has meant the world to me, no matter how big or small.
Sometimes I just get caught up in my own routine and socializing seems too exhausting to add into the mix. Other times I’ve been new to an area and have been too shy to reach out to another mom. Either way, I’ve needed someone to reach out and remind me how important it is to get out of the house and spend time with someone who can talk to me about more than just PJ Masks and Calico Critters.
As a mom of two now, I have a little less anxiety and a greater need to interact with other moms. I am lucky to have many great mom friends who I get to spend time with often. I recognize that many mothers are searching for friendship and I try to extend invitations to those who could use a friend.
I will never forget the moms who have offered their friendship to me. Whether it was a simple invitation to go on a walk, or welcoming me into their home for a play date, it made an impact on me and helped ease the loneliness that can come with motherhood.
