December often brings challenges for couples who were raised in different faiths, especially if they
do not currently subscribe to a particular one. Prior to having children, my husband and I celebrated the holidays outside of our home; we celebrated Hanukkah with my family and Christmas with his. We enjoyed community lights and celebrations as well. However, children brought a whole new dynamic to our winter holiday traditions.
My family now has its own traditions which are the perfect combination of both of our faiths. I never thought my winter holidays would include a Christmas tree in my home, and I imagine that my husband never thought his home would have a Menorah. But every year, we put up a Christmas tree shortly after Thanksgiving and during Hanukkah, we light candles each night to a secular and peaceful message. We enjoy sharing this beautiful melding of traditions with our children.
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Our holiday traditions evolve through the years too. A few traditions that I love during this time are giving our children a new set of pajamas on Christmas Eve, making a yearly photo ornament, playing Dreidel with friends and family, and having our children shop and exchange gifts under $2 for one of the nights of Hanukkah.
I have always been a firm believer in having routine and consistency in our children’s lives, but had
never truly thought about how holiday traditions contribute. Our family now enjoys the combination of
holiday events within our community and in our home. Who can resist the twinkle in their eyes as
they celebrate?
